Most of the topics of my conversations with almost everyone lately is about choosing the right girl as our future wife. And yeah, why in the hell do we talk about marriage at such young age?! Here's why...
Recently, MARA College Seremban had organised Kem Remaja Ad-din a.k.a KRAD for the first year students. Some of us felt that its quite unfair since the second year students were only "invited" to join the camp. So, one night, the seniors played a video of a forum about marriage recorded by the Universiti Teknologi Petronas. One of the panels were the famous Ustaz HABIBURRAHMAN EL-SHIRAZY.
You've heard the name right? AWW, COME ON!! He's the one who wrote the famous novel entitled "Ayat-Ayat Cinta". Seriously, the novel is a MUST READ!! Even me myself can barely sleep without finishing the whole book and it took me around just THREE DAYS to finish it up. Kinda impressive right? YEARRGHH!!
Anyway, I would like to emphasize on this hadith read by the ustaz;
"Nikahilah wanita dalam empat kategori: Hartanya, keturunannya, kecantikannya, agamanya. Pilihlah wanita yang mempunyai agama kerana dia akan menjagamu" Riwayat Syaihan.Most of the guys would prefer to marry someone as hot as Rozita Che' Wan or Megan Fox, but i want to share with you guys this calm and warm feeling that i experienced yesterday.
Her name was *tuuuut* and she'd just graduated from the University of Auckland. She came to my house last night together with my tok sedara's family and we've met before. She was the type of girl that I'd usually classified as 'Islamic' as she wore this extra large baju kurung and scarf but she was a nice and peramah person.
Frankly, when we chat, I felt pleased and excited to keep on talking to her. She had this some kind of attraction which couldn't be described through words.
The moral of the story here is that guys, don't think that the "Islamic" girls aren't that attractive and manja. To me, they are actually more attractive and manja than the hot babes in a indescribable way. Also, for the girls, do think twice about your clothing and attitude because most guys like me are more likely to fall for girls like *tuuuut* just now.
